“Words can inspire. And words can destroy. Choose yours well.” – Robin Sharma
The World Cup has come and gone but I think many people, especially Americans, will continue to think about it. Not in a sense of France capturing the crown, but because shockingly, the United States did not qualify. Many have offered various reasons for why the US did not qualify but one reason seems to be a common point: that the talent at the youth level has declined due to the rising costs of the sport. Forbes posted an article on July 16 titled, “What’s Killing Youth Soccer in America Is Also Hurting Most Every Other Sport.” The article cited a New York Times piece that raised the issue of a decline in participation at the youth level, specifically targeting the poorer communities, “The exodus of players in youth leagues has drawn recriminations over clubs and leagues that have pushed and profited from a pay-for-play model that has turned off parents and kept out talent from poorer, underserved communities.” The Forbes article also goes on to reference recent comments by Hope Solo, the goaltender for the reigning US women’s World Cup team. Solo has been very outspoken recently in her views that her family “would never be able to afford” the costs of playing soccer today if she had started playing today. Essentially, people are saying that the cost of the sport is driving kids away. And quite possibly, the kids being driven away could have been part of the future of the sport.
These comments, and these views, are not only reserved for Soccer; but for other sports as well, including Baseball. In an August 2017 Time Magazine piece titled, “How Kids’ Sports Became a $15 Billion Industry”, they reference that “families can spend more than 10% of their income on registration fees, travel, camps and equipment.” And in an ABC News piece in September 2017, they stated that “Some parents have even turned to crowdfunding, using sites like GoFundMe, to support the sports-related costs incurred by their children.” The youth sports market is expected to reach $41.2 billion by 2023 (WinterGreen Research – September 2017); so, these likely won’t be the last articles that reference the rising costs of youth sports.
My fear is not that the youth sports market is growing at a rapid pace. My fear is that these articles, and the words within them, can be seen as a deterrent to many kids that may be interested in sports (or a particular sport). Parents may be less likely to push their kids into sports when they believe it’s too expensive. A separate Times piece was titled “The Astronomical Cost of Kids’ Sports”. How does Webster define “Astronomical”? They define it as “enormously or inconceivably large or great”. Why would parents want to introduce their sons or daughters to something where the costs are “inconceivably large or great”? They may not have any knowledge on the cost of the sport in their area; but they see this headline and they are influenced by it.
Ben Franklin once said, “Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficult still, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment.” A parent or a child that is of a low-income household may see these words, and hear people talk about the high cost of a sport and be immediately influenced by what they hear. The result may have them searching for another sport, never knowing whether they would excel at the sport they just steered away from.
We need to adjust our narrative. Yes, it’s ok to state the fact that youth sports are expensive; but you do NOT need to go the expensive route. And this is where many make a mistake at the youth level. As a youth baseball player, you do not need a lot of money to work on your game. You need a baseball, a tennis ball, an inexpensive glove, a whiffle ball bat and internet access. You have these items and you can practice all day long. Do you need a $200 glove? DEFINITELY NOT. Buy a used glove and you’ll be fine. Why internet access? Well, that’s where you will find the drills you will need to do to get better. You do not need access to a state-of-the-art facility. Find a park and begin working. Find a brick wall and throw the tennis ball against the wall all day long to practice your throwing and fielding. But, let me be clear. One has to be willing to WORK to get better. And I think that is where the current youth lose it in today’s world. They fail at ‘working’.
Now, about teams. Expensive ‘travel’ teams at the youth level are simply over-rated. Paying for out of state trips, or all-day tournaments is not needed. If you want to do that because you enjoy it, great. Have at it. But, the narrative is that you need to play for these travel teams if you want to get better. That is simply not true. You need a good coach to get better. And I know plenty…PLENTY of bad coaches at the travel ball level. Parents also believe that their kids need to play for travel teams if they want to advance their son’s chances at the next level. They believe that paying a steep fee for a travel team will somehow help them down the road when it comes time to secure a college scholarship. Being a former college baseball coach; and knowing many that are still in the field; I can say that you will NOT find a college baseball coach scouting a youth baseball game. Tiffanie Wen (BBC October 2017) wrote an article titled “The Psychology Behind Spending Big” and stated “Research into how cost affects our perceptions shows that price matters so much to our understanding of value that we sometimes rate pricey things as superior or more effective, even if they are the same quality as the expensive option.” We need to stop insinuating that kids should play travel baseball if they want to get better or advance their careers. A parent that ‘buys into’ this narrative will NEVER have their son play baseball if they cannot afford it.
It’s ok to enroll your son in Little League or a local Recreation league. Yes, you may find that there are more less talented players in Rec leagues than in Travel teams; but your son is doing something that is needed; he is playing the game. Sometimes it is hard for more talented players to continue playing in Rec leagues because the competition may be watered down. They may not feel as challenged. They may become more frustrated that kids on their team don’t care as much. But, this actually presents a great opportunity for your son. It’s an opportunity for them to work on being a leader and a great teammate. Your son can help these players learn the game by helping them understand the value of hard work and better focus.
Parents and their kids are generally looking to play youth sports for one of three reasons: to stay active, they love the game, or to play at a higher level. I think most start out playing to stay active or they love the game; but as years pass, some will look to play at a higher level as they begin to see their skills develop. I believe that it’s at the point where kids have a desire to play the game longer where parents begin looking into ‘better’ options for their kids. And this is when parents begin to look into travel teams, thinking that travel teams are the answer. I’ll say it again, kids do NOT need to play travel before the age of 13. What they need to do is to learn the game. And learning the game requires work and discipline. It doesn’t require spending thousands of dollars to play on a team where the instruction provided by the coach is something you could get on the internet.
What I would love to see are more stories of how kids make it to the Pros where they spend time in their backyard hitting by themselves for hours. Or how they go to the park with their mom or dad and field groundballs for hours. We need this to be the narrative. We need to talk more about success stories where kids didn’t pay thousands of dollars to gain success. We all know that many travel teams are way over-priced. Why do we need to harp on it? We need kids and parents to hear that they can make it without spending so much money.
We have to get away from thinking we need to pay for success. We need to go back to the narrative of success favors those that work hard and are determined to make it. Our words have to change because I feel the narrative we are presenting is pushing kids away from the game before they even know if they will ever excel at it.